When in any social setting such as a club, you’ll want to separate the girl you like from her friends. Once she’s separated from her friends, it’s just a matter of building bond and connection with her until she’s ready to go to bed with you.

But how many times have you had a woman pulled away from you in a club by one of these friends?

How many times have her friends interrupted your conversation and pulled her away with the «we’re going to the bathroom» routine? How many times have you seen a friend barge into the set and say, «She’s my girlfriend», and leaves with the woman you want? How many times have your intentions been thwarted by the dreaded, «My friends want to leave»? And the last thing you see is her looking back at you with a face that says, «Sorry! I don’t know what happened! I have no choice but to leave!»

You see, women are not as in control of their lives as you might think. Women, especially beautiful women, rely on their social network of friends and family to protect, comfort, and support them. A beautiful woman’s social network is a influence on her, even if it limits her choices in terms of who she can date, have sex with, or even talk to.

On top of that, beautiful women hardly go out alone. They tend to go out in groups of two or three to prevent each other from the constant and never ending onslaught of guys trying to get into their pants — so removing her from her friends is a must.

The irony is that if you ask women, they are looking for a guy to meet. But the social dynamics of her peer group control her choices.

So how do you take a woman away from her friends so that you can bond and connect with her? After all, you can’t just steal her. The problem is twofold… her friends and her. Her friends might become jealous of all the attention she gets from you. They might be possessive of her. They might be dealing with their own issues with guys that may have hurt them in the past.

Whatever the case is with her friends, understand that they’re often in protection mode… protecting the woman you desire from getting hurt or winding up with the wrong kind of guy.

On the other hand, she’s all caught up in thinking…

«What will my friends think?»
«What will they say if they see me with him?»
«What if they think I’m a slut!?»

You can neutralize these issues by including her friends in the conversation and getting them to like you. Don’t be afraid to ignore the girl you like a little and pay more attention to entertaining and getting in with her friends. This alone will both satisfy the friends’ desire for attention that they hardly get because their pretty friend is usually the one in the spotlight, and also increase her liking you by getting her a little jealous of her friends taking some of the attention away.

Use stories, techniques, and routines to come across as popular, successful, intelligent, and fun to her friends.

If her friends think you’re a cool guy, they will not stand in your way when you want to spend some time with the girl you like alone. They are, without even realizing it, giving you their acceptance, approval, and permission. Sometimes, her friends will even do the hooking up for you.

The woman you’re seducing will see her friends like you, so her normal thought pattern of «What will my friends think? What will they say if they see me with him? What if they think I’m a slut!?» is replaced with:

«I want to be associated with a popular, successful, intelligent, and funny guy like him.»
«Look how my friends pay attention to him, laugh with him, and like him!»
«I better take him away from them before they get any ideas… he’s mine!»

See the difference it makes when you make her friends comfortable and befriend them? Now you can safely get her friends’ permission to talk with her privately without worry about being cockblocked.

Say to the girl’s friends, «Hey, we seem to get along pretty well… do you guys mind if we go over there to talk?» They’ll all say, «Okay!». Now bring her to a quiet corner and sit down with her — alone! Now you can relax, lay back, and concentrate on getting to know the girl more intimately. But this time you used the power of her friends’ influence over her- to further your goals!

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Your Friend,
Derek Vitalio

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