I rarely have time to work one-on-one with guys in paid sessions. Frankly, my time is expensive and there are guys who can be found to work with you for free or for very little. But I do take students for personal training from time to time, and on this occasion I was working with an older gentleman in his mid-50s.

This guy had only screwed his wife before, whom he had now divorced. His body language was all off, and he had absolutely no experience with meeting women or dating them. I was basically starting at point zero with this guy.

He wanted to meet some women his age, but I wanted to push his sense of what was possible. And if I was going to spend time training, I wanted to meet some younger ladies myself.

So I talked him into meeting me at Lincoln Road in South Beach and I assured him I’d get him a make-out with a 20-something year old by the end of the night.

Well, I got him two make-outs with 20-something year old girls by the end of the night, and the second make out he did was just wrong. In a nasty way. But I just didn’t have the heart to tell him, as he was having so much fun.

And no, she wasn’t a transvestite. Let me explain exactly what happened…

The first make out was pretty routine. I suppose that the idea of a 54-year old guy with no game making out with a girl half his age, in a busy public street within a matter of minutes of meeting her, sounds far-fetched to most people. But it’s really not that difficult to pull off.

In this first case, I did all the work, opening the girl, taking her by the hands, spinning her. I then told her to close her eyes, and then I told the old man to lean in and kiss her. He did so, and the girl didn’t pull away.

But she was kind of shocked. She was a little freaked out really. But the lukewarm make-out did happen (hey, I’m not a miracle worker!), and in the middle of the street. She did want to follow us to the next club, but I essentially told her to get lost. We had more people to meet.

But what’s far more interesting is the second make-out of this guy’s night.

We head off to a club on Washington Avenue, which shall remain unnamed to protect the innocent. I know a guy named Roary there who is a club promoter and the old man and I get in for $10 each with no wait (a steal by South Beach standards). I meet Roary inside and we arm shake.

Roary introduces me to a thin girl, with black hair, pretty, and maybe 25 or so. I say hello and spin her around and she falls into my arms. Right away I can tell she’s a little spaced out, very uninhibited, and most likely high on something.

I simply lift her up and in my arms and carry her over to an empty couch in the center of the club and sit her down in my lap.

I start pushing her off my lap, and pulling her back to me, not saying anything (the club is too freakin’ loud) so it’s all a forceful body language push-pull. This drives her crazy.

She jets for my mouth for an open mouth make-out, and I push her away and physically lift her up and stand her on her feet and sit back down. This is a forceful push action… girls dislike feeling pushed away.

She more aggressively comes back at me, sitting on my lap and trying to force an open tongue make-out on me. I lift her up again and stand her on her feet, facing her away from the couch. I tell the old man to scoot over, and we switch seats. The wild child girl sits back down defiantly, but this time she’s on the old man’s lap.

I yell into his ear, “Kiss her!”

He doesn’t hesitate, and he puts his mouth to hers, and she plunges right in.

She’s either too high to care, or she needs the validation I was denying her- but probably some of both.

Now this 54 year old man is making out with a 20-something and she’s in so deep she’s fishing for his tonsils. We suddenly become the epicenter spectacle of the entire club and I’m actually feeling quite uncomfortable, so I get up and put about 20 feet of distance between myself and the literal mouth rape that’s taking place.

With the room focused on them, I notice that Roary is laughing is ass off. I go over and ask him what’s up.

Roary tells me that this crazy chick had just given him a blow job in a back room… and he came on her face not thirty minutes ago.

I grasped the implication immediately. The old man was probably inadvertently slurping the dried remnants of Roary’s cum off her cheeks.

The old man was having too much fun, but I had to pull him away from this girl, they were making too much of a scene. “We’re leaving,” I shouted to him over the music. It took me about five minutes to separate the two.

We get outside but the girl follows us to the door, pleading us not to leave. “She’s high,” I tell a group who catches the scene.

The old man had obviously enjoyed himself; and I didn’t have the heart to tell him about what Roary said (and Roary is a straight shooter, a true natural, he gets laid a lot and I don’t doubt his story).

But our night has just begun, and we walk to the next club with big smiles on our faces… and new stories to tell.

I know this story may sound out of place- but I am here to share with you my experiences. I am here to illustrate how reality can be bent and the wild things that can go down when you let them.

There’s no reason an older man without looks can’t hook up with a younger woman; the limitations are largely inside his own head.

Of course, as we grow older we tend to grow more mentally rigid in our beliefs, our childlike playfulness and brazenness beaten out of us as adults. But it doesn’t have to be this way. You too can take life by the reigns, no matter what you’re age, no matter what you’re looks. This particular experience is proof enough of that.

But the proof is in the pudding. Check out my Seduction Science System 3rd Edition for the theory and my Deep Inner Game program for working on your internals. Do the courses and see for yourself the kind of internal changes you can manifest to make your life full of sexual abundance, or find a rich relationship with one special woman - with reality and the world at your command.

If you’re getting older, life is too short to wait. I know that. You know that. Let’s make change happen, together.

Until next time,

Derek

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