Powerful Inner Game
Posted by Talisman on 12/23/07 in Inner Game
To get your game together, you also need to be solid inside. That means total self-confidence, no self-doubt. How do you develop this?
I recommend many books, the use of hypnosis, NLP, and even brainwave entrainment audio. However, there is something simple which you can start doing immediately which will benefit you. That is to use affirmations. Affirmations are statements about yourself written in the present tense. They should describe the ideal you, the person you’d like to become. They will act on your subconscios mind, and in my experience, they work and will come true. Read them a couple of times a day, especially before going out to meet women or a date or a call with a girl.
Write them in the present: “I am relaxed and comfortable“, not “I will be…“. Make them positive: “I am a winner” not “I’m not a loser“. Come up with your own, that are powerful for you, but here are some examples:
- I am friendly
- I am fun-loving
- I am approachable
- I am interesting
- I am clever
- I am a leader
- I am challenging
- I am a success in all that I do
- I can attract any woman I want
- I know my purpose
- I am confident about who I am
- I am an attractive man
- I have a powerful reality
- I am cool, calm, collected
You can also write them out as a paragraph:
My world and life are attractive and interesting. People like me, they want to meet me. I am very interested in other people, I want to meet fun, positive and interesting people.
To see if they work, just read the above out loud and see if you feel better! Remember we need to balance out the negativity many of us have all around us and affirmations are a great way to do that. They are also useful for state control. For more on inner game, state control, and affirmations, check out the Home Study Course.
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Gavin Wilson | Dec 5, 2008 | Reply
Think you are going to fluff your openers and you will. Think positively and you will close - every time.